The Visibility Shift with Ellie Steinbrink

Your Wardrobe Feels Wrong Because You’ve Outgrown Who You Used to Be

Ellie Steinbrink Episode 24

I underwent a deeply personal evolution this year. It required me to release clothes, mindsets, expectations, and versions of myself that simply couldn’t come with me as I move into my next chapter. The transformation was, at times, painful.

When the shift you feel on the inside becomes too loud to ignore, your wardrobe is often the very first place that shift shows up. What looks like a routine closet clean-out is actually a profound moment of recognition that becoming the woman you’re meant to be requires shedding the pieces that kept you anchored to an older identity.

In this episode of The Visibility Shift, I'm revealing how doing the inner work to create that shift has influenced my style, vision, and sense of self. You’ll learn why women often seek styling help at moments of transition, why external change feels so vulnerable, and why dressing for the woman you’re becoming is one of the most liberating choices you can make.

1:00 – How a seemingly simple decluttering moment revealed a deeper internal shift waiting to be acknowledged

2:36 – Questions around identity, rest, approval, intuition, and self-trust that this pivotal year sparked for me

4:14 – How this difficult year has helped me hone in on what’s really true for me

6:55 – Why women come to stylists like me in times of transition

8:48 – Your sign to step into a new level of visibility as the woman you already are

9:40 – Encounter that shows how internal change naturally radiates outward (and catches others’ attention)

11:39 – Style as a doorway to deeper self-trust and freedom and where true style work begins

13:51 – Questions to ponder that really helped me assess all the changes I went through in 2025

15:43 – The scary, but liberating, action of taking the next step to be fully seen as your true self


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